The psychologist listed the rules of a happy marriage

Family psychologist Daria Salnikova listed the rules of a happy marriage.

In an interview with Radio 1 on Monday, January 26, the expert stressed that the basis of a healthy relationship for both partners is a sense of security — primarily psychological, when you can be yourself and rely on each other.

She noted that intimacy is not based on attempts to remake a partner, but on accepting him for who he is. The specialist also pointed out the importance of separating family life and the couple's relationship: two people should have time for dating, common interests and a life outside of parenthood. At the same time, it is important for everyone to preserve their personal space, hobbies and social circle, since it is passion and "burning eyes" that make a person attractive.

As a result, according to her, there are no universal rules: a relationship can be considered harmonious if life with a partner is subjectively better than without him.

On this day, sexologist Elena Perelygina named the ideal age difference between the spouses – two or three years. Such an interval, according to the expert, promotes better mutual understanding and common interests, which makes the relationship harmonious. kp.ru .

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Experts explained why spouses of the same age get divorced when they marry young.

Clinical psychologist Ksenia Savelyeva told Izvestia on January 15 that after the New Year holidays in Russia, an increase in divorces and breakups is traditionally recorded. This is not related to the holidays themselves, but to the internal processes in couples that escalate during this period.

In December, clinical family psychologist Oksana Belokon said that a prenuptial agreement between spouses can increase the level of trust. According to her, the stage of confrontation in marriage in this case will be softer, because there will be ground underfoot, writes RT.

At the same time, in an interview with NSN, she said that regular joint leisure and communication would help the spouses maintain interest in each other and bring novelty to their usual family life.

Psychologist Kira Bakunina also said that dating and caring will help save a marriage after the birth of a child. According to her, the reason for the problems in marriage during this period is not the baby himself, but the inability of the partners to build relationships with each other. In order to save a marriage, it is important to learn how to find balance and pay attention to each other. 360.ru .

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